Going the extra mile....too far.

If you have the right answer for you, but it's not what others want to hear, is it the wrong answer? If you can do your best to tolerate something that isn't the right answer for you, but makes other happy, is it necessarily the wrong answer?

How much should one compromise in order to keep what they value? Is the answer to value nothing and no one, then there is none to lose or compromise for?

Much like a seesaw, if one is made happy, the other is miserable but they care to hold down their end to keep the other one uplifted. The question is, who carries more weight?