do what they told you

has a problem doing what people think is "best" for her. maybe she knows what she wants to do at the moment and while your suggestion is very nice and sweet, i don't feel like doing that right now, maybe for reasons that you don't know and didn't ask or don't matter to you even if you knew.

we don't always get to do what i want when i want, so, i have to deal with that. touche'. doesn't mean that you can't always suggest, but just know that we don't always get what we want. just do what you need to do. i will come around when ready.